• As a group of adults, a member should do whatever he feels comfortable doing and let others know his limits if any.
  • OK, for anyone to say ‘no’ if someone suggests something they don’t want to do. We should welcome a wide spectrum of members — not dictate to anyone. I think the ‘complainer’ just wanted to scam his membership money back from you — he seemed to have had a very good time and didn’t look insulted or disappointed.

  • Oral and anal is fine because of a person’s right to say “no” and not participate in such, and enjoy masturbating only.

  • I think it should be a just j/o group until say 10pm and then after 10pm anything goes. That way if guys wanted to just j/o they know to show up early…guys that want more, know to show up later.

  • Guys are there own regulators… If they don’t like something just bow out and don’t make a fuss and make the situation awkward for everyone else…the guy at the meeting made me feel uncomfortable with his comments he should have just said I have to go. Then not come back… It’s not for everybody… Darren, you are doing a great job and service to the surrounding area… Don’t change for 1 bad apple.
  • Hi Darren
    Thanks for the ability to give feedback
    I have attended in the past and I HOPE To attend AGAIN –busy and hard to get to Butler BUT I DO HOPE to return !!! You are NOT the sex police and guys know the risks–They should be able to do what they want to do –If the living room is masturbation and the bedroom more intense play –then stay where you want to be –but if guys want to suck and or fuck –well we are all adults and should be able to engage as we want–and condoms —while I personally think they are a Good thing–that should also be up to the guys — If a bottom guy does NOT want bareback –then he should not have to play that way –but if guys want to bareback–that is up top them –you should not have to police that– If I attended and decided to do more than just jack -that’s up to me –and I might do so?-but I DO hope to return sometime for more fun!—-anyway –THANKS –when I attended -it was G R E A T !!!!!!!!
    Thank You — Rich—– —italbearr2@yahoo.com
  • I think the men who attend are consenting adults who understand the risks they face. People need to be responsible for their decisions.
  • I want the meetings to be for men only, I’m fine with feminine men and would like to make out with a feminine guy. I’d like that experience. As for transsexuals, I’m not comfortable with that. Maybe I would warm up to it but I doubt it.

  • Don’t let one guy change everything you have built. He doesn’t speak for all.

  • Well, I have not been to a meeting yet, but very interested! I did search for group play and found Daburghjacks. I love to jack with and watch other men Jacking! I also love to lend a hand and my mouth to get men off! I love to watch the videos where the group is jacking in and on the guy on his knees find that so hot and would to be the gut in the middle! So I would say allow anyone that wants to suck and get sucked have fun too!!
  • I think it would be safer to use a condom for fucking and sucking. Thank You.
  • We are all adults. We know about STDs and should all do what we are comfortable with. If you like bareback, swallowing and eating ass it’s your own choice. No one is being forced to participate.
  • I think you should change it to a “jack off and more group”. If some guys only want to jack and not be involved in anything sexual make a certain area for that, like the living room. If guys want to play, there should be an area for that. You should not police the activity’s in anyway. Everyone is an adult and make decisions for themselves how they want to play. Only thing I suggest you police is drug use- no drugs. All this is of course if YOU are ok with it being more than just JO. For me, I’d find it hard to go to a JO club and not suck some dick (or have full blown sex) if I was attracted to someone.
  • This group was very appealing to me. However, I would never attend. Every get together has been described as hosting nothing but Adonis’. A man in his fifties, of average endowment, has no place there. Maybe theme parties to get more hot guys to attend..
  • I am very curious about attending one of your meetings. I do have a few questions for you, first are there all different body types I’m a little heavy, next I read the blogs and saw nice thick big cocks is everyone big? I’m not. Like I said I’m very interested in becoming a member just curious before just showing up and feeling out of place. Thank you for your time.
  • Let it alone.
  • Have separate “no rules” afterparty
  • Personal..adults should know the risks.
  • The four+decades history of “Jacks” groups is one of those prohibiting oral or anal action. All of the other “jacks” groups I’ve researched follow this policy. As far as “policing,” there is a spectrum of policies about this among the groups. Some groups can get by with “self-policing,” these are generally long-established groups in large cities where peer pressure and other options make this easy (i.e. folks who want to suck and fuck in a group setting have plenty of places to go do that,  while attendees at jacks clubs are passionate about their sessions being masturbation-only.) Other Jacks groups are highly structured, facilitators and volunteers gently police and participants know they can be asked to leave or in extreme cases banned if they don’t follow the code of conduct. The point is not to shame them but to let them know they are in the wrong place for what they seek. Some would consider the use of the term for other purposes to be misleading. Historically such use has been a source of problems for some people and other groups. It may not be true in your region but in some regions, it has been a sign of internalized oppression – i.e. those having sex parties and sex groups hid them behind the term “jack-off .”I have personally encountered people who have been genuinely shocked and disturbed by the experience of getting psyched up for a jack-off session that was, in fact, an orgy. It is for these reasons that as an owner of a “Jacks” group I cannot include yours in the list of others that I email monthly to my list. My suggestion would be to rename / re-brand if you wish to continue as you have. Alternatively, you could hold masturbation only sessions under the “Jacks” brand and “open” sessions under a different brand. Best of luck!
  • I’m from the old school open group sex. Probably in a separate room so those not interested could do their thing in a more controlled environment.